Katya Oceran is a whirlwind, it has always been, and far from losing the sylphons for many years, Katya is still going on. If you know Katya, if you are sitting with her to share coffee, you will find out that in this conversation you will learn a lot of things. This is a consequence of the restless and smart mind that the trade in the body of a woman who enters – and falls into every scrub that is considering or not suitable. Katia does this for her for all her companions.
The feminist, activist, libertarian, rebellious, coach by equality, field and diversity, music teacher, cream communicator and solo mother of choice, this is a passionate justification of everything that he does, never dreamed of being a mother, and there was no idea that was around his head since childhood. But everything changed when he saw new forms of education. There she looked for 39 years, fully realizing what she was doing, and with “many shoes”, she became pregnant from Juan and decided to become a solo mother of choice.
“I was going to be a mother with or without Huan,” he notes, and smiles calmly, striking around the world in American coffee, who had just asked and moves in his hands with red nails.
It was a moment, fully realizing what he did, and with all the instruments in his head. A few years ago, Katya was interrupted, because then she was neither at the same time nor she wanted to.
“When my sister Sonya was a mother, another horizon opened.
Katya wanted to be such a mother as Sonya: aunt, on demand, collect, wear and take care of scientific demonstrations, slowly to free her daughter and respect the time and care required for the arrival of the child’s world, focus on care and emotional well -being and put him in everything. His daughter Noah took breast milk until four years old.
“When the mother leaves the room, the child reduces the temperature; He is scientifically proven. We put in touch at the reproduction center, not the economy. We create a very present, and, obviously, you say that there are not many things, but I do not like my daughter to be alone. I never left my daughter with someone to drink.
Katya today is a woman who, largely, largely thanks to her mother.
“My mother was already walking in jeans and traveled around the world; She separated from my father, because she did well with her and founded the first owner of the house in Asturia. ” When Katya was in the second primary course, her parents parted, and her father, from whom she retains the memories that make her raised her mother, placed the table, dividing the house by two. “Children during Franco were from their father. The mother could only have children under the age of six, ”he explains.
A few months later, sharing this house, he left for two, Katya’s father decides to settle in Madrid.
“My mother stayed in Ovedo with the little ones, and the rest took us with them. We did not want a school of nuns in which I studied and left with her.
Katya is able to accept a life that attracts attention, and this, with her smile, with which she ends all the phrases, seems that even the worst memories are losing a little power.
“I decided the therapy for abuse from 2003 to 2004,” and was released from mental burden. Another smile and continue. “Tell me a family where there is nothing to treat or treat in therapy,” he says.
And again the data is correct again. Make another sip of coffee, which was cold in such a big analysis.
After this process, he goes on a trip to Mexico and there “I fall in love.” He falls in love with Juan, and for the first time feels that he may have found the future father of his children. But what happened more than times … so many times.
“The anxiety shot me. Juan was, and these are good people, but I intended to ask his permission to move for life. We had anger and decided to break. The next month I had the first mistake ”and Katya shut up. A few months later he sends an email to Huan, informing him. “I told him that I was going to become a father, and that he was going to be as much as I wanted, but that my life will not change. He told me why we didn’t get married (another laughter) and, obviously, I told him “no”, except that the person whom I will love most for my life was in his way. ”
Katya decided to become a single mother and will return to the same path without hesitation. Fifteen years ago, his daughter Noah was born. Juan came to visit three times from Mexico, and Katya brought up and grew alone.
I was lucky that I can do my job from home to adapt, but, obviously, it is not easy alone. Large support for monomatic families. I have the maximum shortage. Right now, in order to preserve this creature, and if you do not become a shortage. But if I need to do the work of two, what is I missing? Time, he indicates.
During the upbringing of Noa, in which he was a child, and knowing that it was very necessary to create a network in order to support all those families that put a bet on conscious upbringing, Katya formed this idea that he had in mind, and, therefore, a “crazy matrix” was born, a network where they all helped, as a tribe to move forward to their families.
This arises from the idea to share the way to increase. This is a meeting place where we rely on scientific and increased knowledge. Life can be organized around life. We were there, we provided ourselves emotional support, if anything doubted, we immediately searched for an expert to give us a seminar; And, above all, among us we generated oxytocin, and this saves raising children, he explains.
In this union, they supported a lot, with really new initiatives that have always been developed, thinking about a very current reproduction. Programs such as “Hogareños” that turned the house of one of the families into a playing place to spend a day with all the children, creating a tribe or quiet support groups that came to abandon the cable when you needed it were fundamental. “With quiet support groups, we went to the house, we have prepared food, we cleaned the house, we stroked, we took the dog … Whatever it is necessary for the mother to be with the child. This fashion, created to offer to take care of her son so that the mother can perform tasks, was a mistake. If you want to help, help him at home, ”says Katia.
Katya Ocerania continues to preside in the “crazy matrix” and focuses his professional career on advising companies to include gender perspective, in addition to being an equality agent and mother Noah. She is always in changes, being part of each step that society gives to become the best place … heritage of the heritage.
The finished coffee, Katya thinks aloud. “I know that this lasts only a while, and I want to take advantage of this,” he refers to the education of Noa, which comes from behind and hugs it. He refuses to get lost.
